I Statements instead of You Statements

You statements often express anger, escalate the situation and isolate the person:  “You didn’t clean your room.” “You didn’t come home on time.”

Instead try an I statement:  “I feel frustrated when you don’t clean your room.”  “I was worried, scared when you didn’t come home on time.
“I” statements express your feelings and are hard to argue with. 

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